Every day is a good day...

 

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I think with the distance, work schedules, hectic lifestyles, tricky twenties, my friends and I are getting to a point where we count our blessings instead of moaning.  This does not mean we do not moan, but we do it whilst counting and thanking God for what we have.  I could not have survived without Sethi's nightly Whatsappes messages, these were sent every night to remind me one step at a time.  Half of the time, I felt like a cow for being so homesick, whilst her mom is in Zimbabwe.  I think what irritated me even more about her is that she would not let me just wallow and entertain the misery.  We had a hectic term, yet again, the next two will be just as bad.   Today I cooked lunch for her and Olwethu, to say "thank you" for carrying me, but also just to "chill" and have a decent conversation that do not include anything about PR.  So YES, every day is a good day, when you have a support system like mine. 

What happens when he's your Prince Charming, but you're not his Cinderella?

Dating is not easy period, add being the new girl in town, makes it more TRICKY!!!  My ego was dented earlier on in the week.  My first reaction was that I really, really want to kick something or someone but not in my new boots.  So I was feeling really crappy, and yes when I have new boots or shoes, I always want to kick someone out of sheer happiness...am weird, I know.  Well my sister Ncedisa sleeps with her shoes when they new, who is more weird now...


A friend of mine once had a crush on someone, and he did not feel the same way...she was so mad she said to me, 'What gives him the right to not be into me? I was so taken aback by her statement, my jaw was literally on the floor.  This week I can safely say I know the feeling...

I have a crush on someone, GOSH epic fail, and by the looks of it the feeling is definitely not mutual!!!

P.S.  of course he does NOT know*sigh*.

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